Question below!

Q.) how can i stop dling things because i feel guilty if i dont, whether please the other side or please whoever is receiving and instead look for my best?

A.) Sometime it's best to care but don't care too much. You seem like a very nice person who has a big heart, however, this heart is betraying you and causing you pain. What you need to do is just tone down how much you care just a few notches so that your love for what is good and right doesn't interfere with your happiness. You have heard of the comedian who is so worried about putting a smile on everyone elses face that he forgets to put a smile on his own face. Don't be that comedian.